Michelle's Big Adventure

In 2005 the year closed as one of the most difficult in my life. The beginning of the new year didn't fair any better. Not only had my marriage ended but my mother died and I lost my job. Things looked and felt very bleak.  Frustrated that I was understandably stymied by the events in my life, Melissa suggested that I do something outside my 'box' - take a class, learn a foreign language. About the same time Joanne gave me a plaque that read, "What would you do if you knew you couldn't fail." As if the gods were conspiring I received a postcard in the mail about an upcoming bike ride sponsored by the American Lung Association: The Pacific Big Ride, 1000 miles - Seattle to San Francisco. 

I found myself in September 2006 heading south on Highway 101, cycling for 14 days, 70-85 miles per day, sleeping in a tent, showering in state parks, and having the time of my life. Riding across the Golden Gate Bridge and knowing that I had accomplished a great goal, physically and emotionally, helped me to know that I was free and able to take care of myself- if I put my mind to it, I could accomplish it. 

And that is what brings me to today and the reason for this blog. I am leaving for three weeks to ride a bike in Vietnam.  I don't know anyone who will be on this tour and that makes me feel a little nervous but also adds to the adventure. The tour is fully supported, my luggage is carried, meals are provided, and I'll be staying in three and four star hotels as I travel from Hanoi (Hue) to Ho Chi Minh City. 

The name of my blog is a nod to some things that are obvious; I am middle-age. But the more subtle piece is that I've always wanted to be a bit of a 'bad girl' - but I am too guilty and too Catholic to really pull that off. As a cyclist I like to think of myself as a biker - the good-girl Hell's Angel type . . . hey, just go with it, okay?

This blog is for my family and friends who may want to follow my big adventure. Your friendship and love is what has given me so much hope for the future, ever joy in the present and understanding of the past.